My Name is Tina and I am a divorced mom with 2 children. I am 41 years old and have decided that I am ready to change my life and spend time worrying about me and stop using my kids as an excuse. They are 21 and 17. They are not little anymore and don't need their mom as much anymore. I am buying a treadmill in a month and will use it. (Once I have put $400 into it I know I will use it.) I want to be in love again but I want to be in love with me first. I have not loved myself in a long time. I have 140 pounds to lose and I am starting today. No better time than the present. I hope that my using this website will allow me to talk to people who are going through the same struggles as I am and will be a support for me as I will be for anyone who needs it.