I stopped working to take care of my husband in 2004. I gained a lot of weight. I lost my husband December 15,2013 and decided I would lose the weight in honor of him, my best friend and husband. I enjoy working outside in the yard. Took down 2 large dead oak trees all by myself. My husband taught me a lot before he got sick. I don't think there is anything I can not do if I set my mind to it.