I am 35 and have been married for almost 8 years. When I got married, I became a mom as well to my husbands two kids. They live with us, so being a full time step-mom can be stressful sometimes. I stopped going to the gym and watching what I ate when we got married. There was just too much to adapt to and learn. Like most moms, I was taking care of everyone else, but me. Now the kids are older and for my health, I have to be taking better care of myself.