Snowwhite100- Журнал, 15 ноя 23

Snow, it took me 3 husbands to figure out I am living for me. Now I'm with someone that knows if I could get 3 husbands looking like I did them he needs to be good to me otherwise there is another one around the corner!!!! 

I'm sorry you're not being valued as you should be!  

I’m sorry you are going through this and you are worthy to be loved and treated with respect by everyone no matter what size you are. It took me many years to believe this for myself and now I do my journey for me not for anyone else. I wish I could give you a hug. So I’m sending you a virtual hug and your in my prayers for your situation may the Lord give you strength and change your husband’s heart. 

Sad for him that he has sunk so low to feel the need to hurt you. Unfortunate that you're stuck with him. 

You know Snow,... this is going to be a little strange, but I have spoken to my Mom and her wife about your situation and I know that you would never want to leave your husband. But if your safety was ever so bothered and I know in the past that it has been and he does indeed take everything and kick you out please reach out. I'm not sure your feelings on things and as I've said before my Mom and her wife are of course lesbians and I don't know your feelings on that. And of course I know there's quite a bit of distance between Corydon, Indiana and your location but they have a spare bedroom and have purchased their home. They would be willing to let you stay if you needed it. I know that you would never want that option and that you were so hard to own your property, your earnings, and all of your wonderful belongings. But since you're already sleeping on the couch if things ever get to a point it's just a thought. I'm sorry if I've overstepped my boundaries with this offer put your stories of resonated with me I wanted to offer you a option. I am sorry if this offer cost any stress or offense for certainly was not my intention. 

Hey Snow! I'm so sorry for the terrible conditions you have to endure! I have heard your stories and I feel very moved that you must live like this! I know that you already know this, but besides being a hateful person, your husband is very likely experiencing diminished mental capacity. His brain isn't working like it should. Although I believe this is a long-standing routine for him..... have a hate filled day, then take it out on you..... remember that he is also not of sane mind or body! {{hugs}} 

We should come up with some witty things to say back to him. I'm not that clever, but I'd probably say you talk too much. Or I'm getting ready to hibernate then laugh hysterically. Or I have to keep up my energy to deal with your insults. Or just any off the wall joking comment as long as it doesn't make things worse.  

Bear, he is physically abusive. If she answers him like that she puts herself in danger. 

SnowWhite you are beautiful and so special to us all 💙💙. Don’t let him dim your light . We are here for you and praying for you 🩵🙏 

Yeah, Shir, You're right. It makes me feel good to say it in my head though. 😞 

Charlieloveschaplin, I love your response. You sound like a very kind and compassionate person. You touched my heart. 

Of course his hateful words hurt your heart, even tho you know how damaged he is. It is human nature to want approval. But I'm afraid you will never get any from him. I wish I knew how to show you how to no longer care about his comments. Seek enjoyment in life in ways that exclude him. Hugs to you sweet Snow. 

Snow, my heart hurts every time I read your posts, you deserve so much more. (((HUGS))) my friend.