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The path ahead feels long. Many years ago I began a personal journey. I was looking for sustainable happiness. The good news is, I found it. But while I spent years looking closely at who I was, I realized that my relationship with the kids' father had to change and be just platonic. It should have always been that way, I just could not admit it to myself. For a year and a half we've been living this way. We are closer now than ever before because I have told my truth. Yet, it is a bit lonely (oddly) because so many people close to me don't know and I struggle with that at times.
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Continuing here: For instance, the kids don't know and my parents don't know, and none of his family knows except his God son. It is hard to say why I should feel so disconnected. I have so many blessings. I am literally happy... but it has been tough. If anyone on FS is going through something similar to a slow-motion divorce I'd appreciate any connection. I'm apologizing in advance for not being able to manage direct messages. I feel like my head will explode if I try and squeeze that into my life right now.
13 янв 23 написано членом: unity1234
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How do I separate from a man I've known since I was 23? He knows more about me than anyone else. He is a good, good man... I'm so glad he is the father of my boys. I will continue later, I think.
13 янв 23 написано членом: unity1234
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Very sad situation. A long time to have a life that seems to be on hold.
13 янв 23 написано членом: -MorticiaAddams
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Thank you Morti. It is ok, I am not sad... I am feeling like I do not know who I am. We have been working through this thoughtfully for a year and a half. We will always be friends, that is for sure.
13 янв 23 написано членом: unity1234
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There are plenty of marriages out there that contain roommates rather than lovers. If both of you are content with the situation, there's no need to divorce. It only becomes a problem if one of you falls in love or even lust with someone else. But if you're really friends, a frank and honest discussion is possible.
13 янв 23 написано членом: JustBananas
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Thank you JB, for now, we are 100% fine. I don't worry about getting involved with someone based on looks. I am only interested in genuine, deep connection. I already have that with the kids' father. I am looking for that and mutual attraction. But not right now. Not yet. Right now, I need to know who I am.. ❤
13 янв 23 написано членом: unity1234
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What does your husband want? Many men might interpret your withdrawal from intimacy as a green light to have meaningless affairs. I hope you are ready for that conversation — open marriage. I am glad to hear that you’re at peace with your situation, as I am sure it is a load off your mind.
13 янв 23 написано членом: JustBananas
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Thank you, JB. My husband and I both want peace through this process. We want to not damage each other. We want to bring harmony to a process that is typically filled with discord. We are on the path that feels right... just wish there were others in similar situations I could talk to.
15 янв 23 написано членом: unity1234
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