gage4ever- Журнал, 18 июл 22

This answer might suck, but it really doesn't stop either. 4 years since my dad died and it hasn't really been much different than a couple days after. You just kinda realize that you're going to move forward each day. Work helps you? Do that. Got a hobby you like? Dive in. Mom still alive? Seize that remaining time with her. My point, do what you enjoy in the short term to help you and then move through life as you can. That's what worked for me. As you go on, you'll have life moments that help you with it all. I got a cat, after she was comfortable with me, I took her for a walk and told her about my life. We bonded a bit more that night.  

My condolences to you and your family. 

Great comments by everyone. Grief is such an Individual journey and is affected by so many things like religion and culture. All of those things come into play as we develop our view of death and dying and they influence how well we cope. There is no right or wrong. The only concern is people who carry paralyzing grief that affects their future years. .  

I am so so sorry about your dad. There really are no words that can express what this type of loss feels like. 😔 I saw your comment on my post and wanted to reach out. My mom was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer in January and passed July 2nd. She was my very best friend and actually lived just up the lane from me, so her loss has created a huge black hole. I honestly think going to the gym almost every day got me through some of the worst of it. (The last three weeks was absolutely horrible 😔) I hope you are doing okay. I've found if I just live a moment at a time and push through, I do all right, mostly.